I don't want to pry.
OK. That's a lie!! I really, really, really want to pry! I really, really, really want to know everything that happened with Dude and Dolly over the weekend.
But they are so little. I pretty much have to wait for them to volunteer up the information.
If applicable though, I can ask a few questions without freaking them out.
Dude informed me he wanted cereal for breakfast this morning. Dude loves cereal for breakfast! I asked him if his grandma gave him cereal. He smiled and said no, she gave him a tortilla and egg. It was a brief conversation but it let Dude know that I'm interested in what he did. No judgement! I'm just interested.
I couldn't help myself though with Dolly. I asked her if her Papi J slept at Grandma's house or if he slept somewhere else.
She said he slept at Grandma's.
I smiled and said, "Oh, so you got to see him first thing in the morning."
She said, "Yes. And then we went to the park."
Papi J has not even started any services yet. Papi J was supposed to get ONE four hour visit while the children were at Grandma's house. It appears that Papi J still lives with Grandma and didn't leave like he was supposed to this past weekend.